2010 in review

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

Healthy blog!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Wow.

Crunchy numbers

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A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 4,900 times in 2010. That’s about 12 full 747s.

 

In 2010, there were 111 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 106 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 45mb. That’s about 2 pictures per week.

The busiest day of the year was February 19th with 157 views. The most popular post that day was covet and drool: banded waist black top.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were twitter.com, stumbleupon.com, networkedblogs.com, en.wordpress.com, and jsgotgame.blogspot.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for iron fist shoes, werewolves, 50s dress, 50′s dress, and museum of fat love.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

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covet and drool: banded waist black top February 2010

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werewolves need love, too January 2010

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covet and drool: iron fist wolfbeater platform shoes January 2010
3 comments

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hnt 1 February 2010
12 comments

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covet and drool: swing dress April 2010

i love my hair

someone please think of the children

I haven’t posted here in a while. I know. I’m sorry. I’ve not been in the best frame of mind for posting or doing much of anything social on the internet. I still don’t feel like it, but I’ve come across something that’s made me genuinely mad, and I need to say something and try to flip things around. I write articles for a living (if you can call it living), and today, I’m working on one about the largest gay pride festivals in the world. Of course, I have to include San Francisco Pride. So, I headed to their website, but – what’s this? I’m being told it has a poor reputation? Whaaaat?

You see, I use this Firefox plugin called Web of Trust, or WOT, which lets people rate the safety of certain websites. It comes in handy in case a site is known to give viruses or is a phishing scam. And with all the websites I come across doing research, I need something like that. When I visited the San Francisco Pride site, people had rated the website negatively in all categories possible. That couldn’t be right, really, so I visited the ratings detail page. Turns out, only ONE PERSON rated the site negatively. The excuse? The site is “not safe for children.” Take a moment to visit the SF Pride website. Go ahead, I’ll wait.

Pretty vanilla, right? Did you find anything children need to be shielded from? I didn’t, either. For that one person to decide that everyone needs protecting from TEH GAYZ reeks of homophobic intentions. I couldn’t let that just sit, so I’ve rated it as highly as possible and left a comment about why the site is completely safe. Kat followed suit, and now I’m spreading the word. If you have WOT installed, please take a second to give a good rating to a worthy cause. If you DON’T have WOT installed and want to get it just to help out, visit the Firefox Add-Ons library for it.

SF Pride has raised over $1.6 million for LGBT, HIV/AIDS and breast cancer supporting non-profit charities. The festivities have several features that are specifically FOR families. So pride, charity and love are unsafe for children?

hair-rah!

Get it? Like hurrah, but…Shut up. At least my hair’s fond of Connecticut.

My hair’s usually extremely dried out. However, the tides are turning, and I approve of this. I’ve been sticking with Garnier Fructis conditioners, as well as this olive oil deep conditioner, and I think that along with not being in a place that’s basically 286% humidity constantly is quite helpful.

day 10 – someone you don’t talk to as much as you’d like to

Keri and I have known each other since kindergarten, when we were both in Ms. Mingledorff’s class. This is the first time in our lives when we haven’t lived in the same vicinity. It’s a bit overwhelming.

Keri –

Well. You and I have a friendship that is now legally able to drink, yeah? Things could have gone quite differently for us. We could’ve remained tight throughout high school and college, but where would we be now? Honestly, I’m somewhat glad that things faded the way that they did; I seem to have bad luck with friendships burning bright and then fizzling quickly. Instead, this is more like a low, steady burn.

I can’t remember how our friendship started, but who really remembers much about kindergarten anyway? Some of my fondest memories, though, are middle school slumber parties and general music class in high school with Jamie/Danielle. I miss being close to you; I am sad that we didn’t think much of hanging out until just before my leaving. And I do wish I’d been a better friend to you. I’m hoping that, despite my leaving, we can keep being friends, and maybe regain some of our former glory. And maybe I’ll take back my denture biting threat.

day 9 – someone you wish you could meet

Evelyn –

Hi there. I’m your granddaughter. You never knew me because you died several years before my birth, but from my understanding, you and my mother were very close. She told me some things about you, about how fun and carefree you were, and I have to admit I’m envious that I don’t have the same kind of personality. I’m far too shy to be anything like that. She also mentioned that, had you been alive, I would be twice as spoiled as I already am now. Yet another reason I wish we could’ve met.

I’m not close to my paternal grandmother. I never had the kind of grandmother that a lot of people have, with the cookie baking and extra spoiling and whatnot. If we’d met, I think we would’ve been good friends. Your absence from my mom’s life was hard for her, and I could tell she missed you on a daily basis. We watched some transferred home movies one day and she cried; I’d not really seen her cry before and it was quite strange.

My grandfather mentioned the other day that I look a lot like you. Personally, I don’t see the resemblance, but I’ll take it as quite the compliment; from your pictures, you were an overwhelmingly beautiful woman. I hope that, wherever you are, you’re happy, and you and my mother are together doing fun mom-daughter things. I think she could use that.

day 8 – your favorite internet friend

Kat –

I debated long and hard about making your letter for day one. However, once I read through the list I decided not to kill two birds with one stone, and thus your spot is firmly secured on day 8. I realize that you have a terrible time with expressing how you feel about people, and that’s totally understandable. I’m the same, as you know, but I’ve been working on it, as you also know. So here goes.

We met in an rpg that turned out to be filled with crazy people. I’m thinking we should tell people a cooler story. Like, maybe we met in the middle of a hurricane. Better yet, we were both spies for opposing sides of the war. When people ask which war, we can simply look astonished that they would be so disrespectful as to question us, then rant about young people these days. Perfect, no?

Admittedly, I was unsure about you at first. You were quiet, but when you spoke, you were weird. However, as time progressed, and the crazies surfaced, it was clear that you and I had to stick together like Titanic survivors floating on a door. And we continued to stick together through the years. I’ve never been more appreciative of a friend coming to my defense than I was with you.

It seems we’ve floated our way through a great amount of crazy water, and only a couple of times did we manage to nearly drown. While we aren’t quite zombie fetish, purple prose crazy, we do have our own problems, for one reason or another. Those problems have a tendency to clash, and this has caused us to have a few hiccups. You hold things in until you explode; I suck at explaining myself and get frustrated easily which makes situations worse. Things are said that shouldn’t be said, and feelings get hurt along the way. I think, at this point, we are above months-long arguments; I have to admit, when we manage to resolve tiny spats now with some nice words and explanations of our actions, I kind of want to give us gold stars for using our words.

You’re a talented person. I don’t think enough people tell you that. You’re lovely, and beautiful, and you should constantly feel like a million bucks. I know that you get down sometimes. I understand why. But you always should remember how fantastic you truly are. Own it. Live it. Love it.

I’m excited to try and make names for ourselves in L.A., and I can only hope that you’re half as enthusiastic about this friendship as I am. I know you’re going to be big. And I’ll be there to mooch off of you and live in your shadow.

day 7 – your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush

Jamie –

I don’t get attached. In the past, boys came and went, and I barely batted an eye. However, for some reason, with you, I can’t quite let go. It’s baffling because we were never really a couple. Despite that, it felt intense, and I was happy. I would look forward to you calling just to ramble about anything and everything for hours and hours until one of us fell asleep. I never look forward to calls, so congratulations on that.

You and I could have been great. It’s hard for me to find people with my exact brand of humor and weirdness, and yet poof, there you were. So imagine my disappointment when the cracks in the veneer began. I am, admittedly, kind of a jerk sometimes. I said hurtful things. But in a lot of cases, I said them in retaliation for comments from you. I don’t like being mocked; I don’t appreciate things that I admit about myself to be turned around and put into an attack on me.

My concern lied mainly in your well-being. I understand that some things may not be pleasant to think about, but if I’m willing to fix myself to make a real go at a relationship, I would love the same kind of courtesy extended. Admit your shortcomings; I wouldn’t think any less of you. Get some help for anxiety and depression, don’t just self-medicate with alcohol. Clearly, the booze is doing you no good. It’s driven quite the rift between us, and it breaks my heart. I want to help you. You won’t let me.

I started to miss you again and I have to remind myself that I can’t do this; I can’t be the ever-forgiving partner that glosses over whatever issues there might be. I can’t just settle because I know I deserve to be treated better. And it’s disheartening because I know you’re capable of being better. I just wish I knew how to let you go.

day 6 – a stranger

Stranger –

Hello. You don’t know me and I don’t know you.. Based upon my past experiences with strangers, however, I know this will go one of two ways; either you will decide that I have a kind face and you’ll spill all kinds of personal information upon me, or you will decide that I am stuck up and snobby and you’ll give me the side-eye. Either way it goes, I’ll be uncomfortable, but it’s not necessarily your fault, stranger. I should explain, however, that I’m not stuck up.

Okay, I’m a little stuck up. But I try not to be upon first meeting. If I seem aloof or disinterested, it isn’t because I feel like I should be anywhere else but around you. I just really don’t know what to do around people. People make me nervous; I would rather watch them quietly from afar than interact. So if you catch me staring, I apologize; I’m just observing your mannerisms. And if I ever become a published author and you recognize some of your quirks within a character, please don’t sue me. Feel flattered.

Thank you, stranger, for the story fodder.

day 5 – your dreams

Does this mean dreams you have nightly? Or dreams as in hopes and aspirations? Maybe I should write something to both.

Night dreams –

Hi, how are you? I’ll tell you how you are: pretty damned creepy. I would like it if you could lay off the nightmares, please. I remember once upon a time, the bad dreams only happened once a month or so. Now, it seems that when I dream, if I dream, it’s not pleasant. Are you trying to tell me something, dreams? Is this an omen? I really hope not because I’d be quite upset.

Remember that time that I had a pool party and Dicky Barrett from the Mighty Mighty Bosstones came? And he was my secret boyfriend but rumor had it he was dating someone else and we got into a fight at the pool and I pushed him in? No? Probably not; that was way back in middle school. Now, all I get are cryptic dreams involving boxes and long-dead celebrities. What’s up with that? Let’s go back to nonsensical fluff, please. My head is not Twin Peaks.

Also – good going, dreams, making me afraid of my closet for twenty years.

Aspirational dreams –

I’m trying to fulfill you, I really am. Step one is complete; I’m out of Memphis. That only took 8 years, huh? I realize that Connecticut is not L.A., but that’s where step 3 lies. Step 2, save money. Step 3, move to L.A. Kat and I have been hard at work on scripts. I’m going to make it a point to finish a feature-length script before heading out there.  Let’s set our sights on making this happen before we’re 30, alright? Alright. Game on.

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